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Experience Is Required, But Suffering Is Optional: Embracing God's Purpose in Every Trial

 

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Experience Is Required, But Suffering Is Optional 

"I ask you, therefore, not to be discouraged because of my sufferings, which are for your growth."  Ephesians 3:13 KSB

   Experience is required, but suffering is optional. No one walks through life without encountering experiences. These moments are designed to help us learn, grow, unfold, and become. However, you do not have to suffer while you're going through them. Pain is not a prerequisite for transformation. Today, I want to help you understand the difference between having an experience and enduring suffering. It all comes down to your perception, how you view and interpret what's happening determines whether you’re just experiencing life or needlessly suffering through it. Jesus said to John at His baptism, “Suffer it to be so now,” which simply meant, allow it to happen. Allow the experience. But He wasn't saying to suffer in pain. You can allow the process without guilt, shame, condemnation, or regret. You can go through life without the burden of judgment or the heaviness of unforgiveness.

   Here are three truths that will help you stop suffering and simply experience:

1. God’s Glory
   Every moment of your life, every twist, every challenge is orchestrated for God's glory. Nothing is wasted. As with the man born blind in John 9, the experience was not a result of sin, but so the works of God might be revealed. When you realize that your life is an opportunity for God to show Himself in new and powerful ways, suffering loses its grip.

2. My Good
   Romans 8:28 reminds us that all things work together for our good. Every lesson, every heartache, every joy it’s all woven into a divine tapestry. Your soul calls for experiences that shape you, refine you, and educate you. The suffering ends when you embrace the lesson and receive the blessing.

3. Our Growth
   Your experience isn't just for you. When you testify of how God brought you through, you build up your family, your community, and even your culture. You contribute to the spiritual growth of the collective body. Your experience has the power to raise the vibration of the entire world. We are all growing, unfolding, and becoming together. You don’t have to suffer. You don’t have to live in pain. You can allow yourself to have the experience, extract the blessing and the lesson, then release it and move forward. Suffering is optional. Experience is necessary. Choose wisely.

📖 Reflection: Are you viewing your trials as painful suffering or as divine experiences meant for growth and glory?

💡 Action Step: Identify a past or current experience and ask God to reveal the glory, good, and growth in it then journal what you learn.

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