Prerequisites for Healthy Relationships: Counting the Cost and Committing to Oneness "For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?" – Luke 14:28–30 (KSB) Healthy relationships do not happen by accident. They are built intentionally, with clarity and mutual commitment. Just as Scripture teaches us to count the cost before building a tower, relationships require thoughtful consideration before laying a foundation. In relationships, clarity and shared vision form the groundwork for connections that support abundant life. Before committing, there are three essential questions that must be answered honestly both for yourself and with the other person. First: Do you desire to be in a relationship? Some may prioritize career, education, healing, or personal growth. There is nothing wrong with that. However, confirming your genuine desir...
I AM God’s A.C.E.: Shining as Light in a Crooked World "That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world." – Philippians 2:15 (KJV) I am God’s A.C.E. God places each of us in various situations and environments as winners, equipped to shine as lights amid challenging conditions. Like the ace in card games such as spades or pinochle triumphing over every other card those who operate from high Kingdom consciousness overcome any circumstance. In Matthew 8:23–27, Jesus demonstrated authority over the environment during a fierce storm. The disciples, overwhelmed by wind and waves, woke Him in fear. Jesus first analyzed their fear-filled atmosphere, then commanded peace: “Peace, be still.” Immediately, the sea obeyed. This moment reveals that the power within is greater than any external condition. First, as God...