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I Will Not Tolerate Disrespect: Biblical Leadership Lessons from Ephesians 6:9

 

Shepherd leading sheep as a symbol of godly leadership and respect.

I Will Not Tolerate Disrespect: Wise Words for Leaders (Ephesians 6:9)

"And, leaders, do the same things to them, without threatening knowing that God who is also your Master is in heaven and has no respect of persons."  Ephesians 6:9 (KSB)

   Paul gives wise words for servants, leaders, parents, and children. As a wise master builder, he shows us how to live a better life, how to lead well, and how to treat others with dignity and kindness. In Ephesians 6, Paul reminds leaders that we were not always in positions of authority, we were once followers, servants, employees, or parishioners. To be effective leaders, we must remember what it was like to be in those positions and treat others with the same respect we once desired.

   If you are an employer, remember when you were employed. If you are a spiritual leader, remember when you sat in the pew. If you are a parent, remember when you were a child. Every person longs to be respected. Now that we hold titles and positions, we must extend the same respect we desired when we were under authority. Every person is worthy of respect. We demonstrate that through our words, our actions, and our attitudes. Jesus taught us: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Respect is not optional it is a reflection of the God we serve. Age, race, gender, education, income, background, or status do not change this truth. We are all made in the image and likeness of God, and therefore, we are all worthy of respect.

   To be a better leader, we must first remember how we wanted to be treated when we were not in charge. Respecting others is not weakness it is strength. I will not tolerate disrespect. Instead, I will set healthy boundaries. I may give a warning such as: "Please respect me as I am respecting you." But if yelling, accusations, or hurtful words continue, I will remove myself, because I do not have to remain in an atmosphere of disrespect. Respect is part of leadership, and it flows from reverence to God. Paul reminds us that God is the ultimate Master, the Leader of leaders, the Teacher of teachers, the Chief Shepherd and Bishop of our souls. When I respect you, I am reverencing God. To disrespect another person made in God’s image is to dishonor God Himself. We cannot claim to worship God while tearing down His children. Respect, therefore, is both a spiritual discipline and a leadership principle.

Wise Words for Better Leaders (Ephesians 6:9)

1. Remember where you came from.

2. Respect those you lead.

3. Reverence God in all you do.

đź“– Reflection: How can you demonstrate greater respect toward those you lead this week?

đź’ˇ Action Step: Choose one person in your life to intentionally honor with words of respect today.

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