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I Love Myself, I Love My Whole Self: Wisdom from Ephesians 5:29 for Better Living

 

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I Love Myself. I Love My Whole Self (Ephesians 5:29) 

"For no one ever hates their own bodies; instead they nourish and cherish them just as the Lord does the church."  Ephesians 5:29 (KSB)

   Paul, in Ephesians chapter 5, gives us words of wisdom for living. He follows the Old Testament model of Solomon, one of the wisest men to ever live, who shared practical truths in Proverbs and Ecclesiastes. He also follows the example of Jesus, our way-shower, who taught through parables and life-giving principles. These words in Ephesians are meant to help us live our best lives. And truly, who doesn’t desire to live a better life? Who doesn’t want to become their best self and step into God’s best?

   Affirm with me today: I desire to live my best life. My life is getting better and better every day and in every way. Paul challenges the church at Ephesus to maximize opportunities. This means that God is always opening doors before us, doors we must walk through. He is always making ways, and it is our responsibility to use those resources wisely. Remember: Your gift will make room for you and bring you before great people. In life, every situation can be viewed either as a crisis or as an opportunity. In Chinese, the symbol for "crisis" and "opportunity" is the same. This reminds us that our perception shapes our reality. Will you choose to see life’s challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation? Today, I invite you to shift your perception and view every obstacle as a steppingstone toward your better life.

   Another word of wisdom from Paul in verse 17 is this: Know God’s will. Many wrestles with this question, but Scripture is clear God’s will for you is absolute good. Jesus said, “It is the Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.” God is not against you; He is for you. His plans for you are filled with hope, blessing, and purpose (Jeremiah 29:11). All things are working together for your highest good because you love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). When you shift into gratitude, thanksgiving, and appreciation, you begin to see God’s goodness all around you. Instead of feeling judged or attacked, you realize that God is teaching you, shaping you, and blessing you. Even when others intend harm, God transforms it for your good (Genesis 50:20). His will for you is always good.

   Paul also teaches about balance. In verse 18, he writes, “Do not be drunk with wine, but be filled with the Spirit.” This is wisdom about knowing your limits. Each of us must discern what we should avoid entirely, what we can enjoy in moderation, and what we should fully embrace. The Holy Spirit leads us in this balance. Too much of anything whether food, television, or even relationships can harm us. The key is Spirit-led moderation.

   Ephesians 5 offers us wise words for better living:

1. Love (verse 28)
2. Leadership (verse 23)
3. Leaving (verse 31)

   Reflect today: In most situations, are you more comfortable leading or following? And how does that align with the wisdom God has given you for your life?

📖 Reflection: How can you shift your perception today to see challenges as opportunities for growth in God’s will?

💡 Action Step: Write down one situation you currently view as a crisis and prayerfully reframe it as an opportunity to trust God more deeply.

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